When properly thought out and evaluated, I believe that kids should be had once you are prepared to always and forever put another person ahead of yourself and right now I love me some me time. I love the freedom of not having any major responsibility. I love coming home, taking a shower and finding a good hoarding or intervention program to kick my feet up to at the end of the day. I don't have to worry about ironing uniforms (other than my own), preparing lunches (other than my own), or even future college tuitions (other than my own). My only focus is ME. And for right now i love that. Of course id love to see what my offspring would look like and what type of human they'll be, but God willing i'll have a few more years to prepare before I meet them. Besides securing my career, and stabilizing my finances, my goal in another year is to backpack across Europe...that may be a tad difficult with a toddler attached. I'd also like to be able to take my kids to Niagra Falls and Euro Disney and Madamme Tussaud's the way my parents were able to take my brother and I. Ohhh the struggle me and my poor lil baby would have to endure at this very moment. not to mention they're gonna need the coolest gadgets and the latest shoes and insurance and all kinds of shit. I can barely afford the gas for my car let alone furnish another human being with all sorts of trimmings. Kudos to the parents out there taking care of their kids..many without any help too! Keep up the good work! I'm just not ready to commit to all that right now...call me selfish.
